Saturday, February 27, 2010

Pray for Chile

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My mom called this morning and told me to turn on the news. From the tone of her voice, I sensed it was serious. She informed me that Chile had been hit by a major earthquake. You may wonder why this would shake me and become the majority of my focus today.

At the age of 21, I was blessed to spend a year and a half of my life as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I lived in La Cisterna (Santiago), La Florida (Santiago), Puente Alto (Santiago), Buin, Paine, Peumo, and Pichidegua. All day I've been trying to make contact with people I knew in Chile. Facebook is a wonderful tool! With each new notice that a friend is safe, my heart lightens. I still have many that I haven't heard back from. I especially am concerned for the people who lived in Peumo and Pichidegua since they were located even closer to the epicenter in smaller towns that didn't build for earthquakes in the same way they did in Santiago.

I see the pictures and want to cry.

Chile will always be a part of who I am.
Please keep the people of Chile in your prayers.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Update on the Ashcrafts

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I love the Olympics. I have to admit that I have become quite the recluse since Opening Ceremonies on Friday. I just can't get enough of it. I have such wonderful memories from the Salt Lake City Olympics. Ivan and I were able to attend an event in 2002 and feel of the Olympic spirit that was there. I wish we could be in Vancouver!

With everything going on, I haven't been diligent at updating our family blog. I thought I would list what we've been up to:

1. I was just put in as secretary of the Police Citizens Advisory Commission for the town of Marana. I have to type up all the minutes to be posted on the town's website along with the agenda for upcoming meetings. Just what I needed- extra work!

2. Elizabeth and I have been going crazy selling Girl Scout Cookies over the last month. I still have Trefoils, Do-si-dos, Thank You Berry Much, Dulce de Leche, and Lemon Chalet cookies left if anyone would like any!

3. Ivan has been staying busy as Cub Scout Master. Pine Wood Derby is now over and the Blue and Gold Banquet is coming up soon. I have the dream calling of teaching the Gospel Essentials class. I love all the wonderful people who come to my class and who I learn so much from.

4. Devan was Student of the Month in January. He's been enjoying learning about colonial history and the Declaration of Independence. We're in the middle of Devan's Science Fair project. I hate science fair projects. Ivan leaves on Wednesday for Florida leaving me to help him finish his project. Devan is also receiving his Tender Foot Award in Boy Scouts.

5. I'm in the middle of working on 2 new cookbooks. Testing, trying, thinking of new ideas. That about sums it up on that one.

6. My dad had to have his heart shocked back into rhythm today. We were grateful that the procedure went well and that he's feeling so much better.

7. Ivan and I were able to go to the Gem and Mineral Show for the first time on the 12th. I let Ivan buy me a beautiful pair of opal earrings that were mined 15 miles from his family farm in Spencer, Idaho. We also went to a great valentine's dinner put on by one of our local builders and home owners association. It was wonderful to meet more of our neighbors.

8. I still am posting deals on www.mysavvysavings.com and filming 2 stories a month for KVOA's 4 p.m. news. I really enjoy it.

Hope this catches you all up!

Monday, February 1, 2010

There's got to be the bad mixed in with the good



Emma has been our family's joy over the last 3 years. Yet, recently she has been my biggest challenge. She's always been a good kid, but lately she's turned into a little terror. In one day, she emptied a whole tube of my lipstick by rubbing it all over the couch upstairs, poured lotion that an older sibling left out all over the hallway carpet, and wrote all over her sister's bed sheets and her own stomach with a permanent marker that another sibling left out. That was in just one day. I could start a huge list of what she's been up to, but I'll refrain. Last night she cried on and off all night. I thought the days of not sleeping were over until the kids hit the late teen years.

As I reflected on the madness and my frustration with this little girl, I started to think about the necessity of opposition. Without pain and sadness, we wouldn't appreciate the joy and happiness. Without chaos, we wouldn't relish peace. It's all part of Heavenly Father's plan.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

One Good Man

Tonight I watched the film One Good Man with our family. What an amazing movie! Here's the trailer. If you live close, you are welcome to borrow it.

Monday, January 18, 2010

Our Friends are looking to adopt

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We have some great friends who hope to adopt their second child.

They are amazing parents and any child would be blessed to join their family

Check them out!

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http://www.parentprofiles.com/profiles/db18994.html

http://lookingtoadoptagain.blogspot.com/

If you know anyone who is thinking about placing a child up for adoption, please keep them in mind.

Friday, January 8, 2010

Our Christmas Vacation




We had such a great Christmas break. Our kids got out of school on the 17th. Ivan had the 18th off, so we let them find their stockings which were stuffed with things they would want for our trip to Idaho and Utah. Later that day, I ran to KVOA for my 25th television interview in December.




The next day, I was blessed to attend Marty's baptism. Marty had been attending my Gospel Essentials class and I didn't want to miss his big day. So glad I got to be there for his baptism. I wish both he and Charity the best. After the baptism, I went home, finished packing the van, and started driving with all 4 kids to Utah. We made it to Ben and Ang's house in Hurricane super late but safely. We spent all Sunday with them attending their church and getting to see them sing in the choir. The kids loved going to Primary with their cousins. On Monday, the kids and I headed north. We drove around to see where we used to live and the hospital where 3 of them were born.


We found a hard patch of snow when we stopped by Wyview in Provo. The kids had so much playing in it. Poor Ivan was hard at work, while we were hard at play. After a stop at the BYU Creamery and Great Harvest Bread Company, we headed to my mom's in Pleasant Grove. I spent the night prepping for my cooking segment for Studio 5 and visiting with Derek and Valerie.


We did make it over to Chad and Camille's house so I could meet my newest niece (#39) Maleah. Spencer immediately fell in love with her. He wanted to be holding her or by her whenever he was around her.


The next day December 22nd I headed up to KSL in Salt Lake City to make the Pumpkin Triffle from my new 101 Things To Do With Pudding book. Every time I come back, it's a huge reunion. I really miss all the friends in the media that I have in Utah. They are as genuine behind the scenes as they are on camera.



On the 23rd, Ivan flew up with a stop in Denver and his first experience of watching his plane be de-iced so they could take off. We went to Cafe Rio for lunch and then headed to my brother Chad's house where he and the kids had fun shoveling the newly fallen snow at Uncle Chad's house. After they finished shoveling, we pulled out the inner tube so they could slide down the hill in front of their house. The kids loved it.


That night my parents, our family, Chad's family and Camille's mom, Derek and Valerie, and Troy gathered at Chad's to do our family Christmas party. We had pizza, cheese balls and crackers, and the pumpkin triffle for dinner. After opening gifts, my family taught us how to play Delmoody AKA "Scum". It was lots of fun. Liz (9) played with us and loved it.



On Christmas Eve, we headed up to Grandma and Grandpa Ashcraft's home by Sugar City, Idaho. We had dinner with Debra, cousin Cameron, and Grandma and Grandpa. Then, we enjoyed watching the kids re-enact the Christmas story while Ivan read it from the scriptures.


Christmas was fun. Santa even managed to drop off a couple gifts for our kids in Idaho. We were excited to see Ellen and Don when they came over to visit that night.


On the 26th, Ivan and I were able to go to the Rexburg temple thanks to my fabulous niece, Breanne. We went with Ivan's parents, his sister Amy and her husband, his sister Ellen and her husband, his brother Brent and his wife, and his sister Debra. To me, this was the highlight of the trip. Afterwards, we celebrated Emma's birthday at Grandma's house. My brother Derek and his wife Valerie (also from Sugar City) came over to help us eat cake and play Delmoody. Liz by then had mastered the game and spent most of her time in the winning spot. She was loving it!




On Sunday, we went to church with Ivan's parents. It was -9 when we got in the car. I had forgot to pack the scrapper so Ivan scrapped the windows with our Debit Card and no gloves. What a hero! That night the Ashcrafts had their family Christmas celebration. Our family had to share a talent. Our kids put on a pretty cute play. You can watch the video to see their acting abilities. :-)

The kids favorite part of the trip had to be seeing and playing with all their cousins. Between that and playing in the snow and riding the snowmobiles, they had a great vacation.

On the 30th, we had the Ashcraft Couple's party. All of Ivan's siblings, their spouses, and parents get together once a year for a party. It was a lot of fun to visit with everyone. Ivan's brother Ben gave us one of his marriage classes from a seminar series that he is starting. It was really good.

We drove back down to my brother Chad's house for New Years Eve. We barely missed a big snow storm that stranded many of our family and friends in Idaho. We spent the night playing Del Moody. It was a lot of fun. I think I now have a new favorite game. At midnight, we celebrated with sparkling cider. Valerie and Derek made me laugh.


On the 1st of January we decided to go sledding along with hundreds of other people. It must be the thing to do in Provo. Who knew? We met up with our friends the Chandlers who lived below us in married student while we were at BYU. My kids had so much fun sledding.

After sledding, we had dinner with one of Ivan's old roommates whom we hadn't seen in years. Then, we headed to Payson to see Ivan's brother Dale and his family who recently moved there. It was great to see them. They were the only family out of the 9 kids in Ivan's family that we hadn't been able to see yet. Wish we could have visited with them longer. From there, we headed south to Beaver and spent the night in a hotel. On Saturday, we drove the remainder of the way home. It was a great vacation.


A Dictionary for Men on a Woman's Vocabulary

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One of our good friends sent Ivan and I the following in an email. We both got a good laugh. Thought it was worth sharing.

1. Fine : This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2. Five Minutes : If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3. Nothing : This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

4. Go Ahead : This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5. Loud Sigh : This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6. That's Okay : This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. Thanks : A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . that will bring on a 'whatever').

8. Whatever : Is a woman's way of telling you were to go.

9. Don't worry about it, I got it : Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.