Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Happy Birthday, Spencer!


If you've been thinking you've seen lots of birthdays on my blog, it's because you have! Our little family has 5 birthdays between June 1st and July 26th. It's a little daunting and exhausting. Poor Emma must feel a little left out having a Christmas time birthday!

Spencer just turned 6. It's hard to believe it has been 6 years since Spencer's miracle birth. He was our only baby who almost died during delivery. He gave us a huge scare, but Heavenly Father must have had a mission for him to accomplish here on earth. He let him stay and bless our lives.

Spencer the day he was born

Spencer is a hard worker. He has had so many setbacks with his speech and motor delays, but he never quits. He keeps trying his best even when it's hard. He is an example to me that we can do hard things. Every step with Spencer has meant so much to us because we would watch him struggle to accomplish each challenge in his development. He has truly been a joy to have in our family.

Spencer is a kid with no fear. He has always been our adventuresome child. If there is a mud puddle anywhere, he is the one to find it. When he was little, he would put on his superman cape. He thought he was invincible if he had the cape on. I finally had to hide the cape.

Spencer on one of his many escapades

Spencer is one of the most loving kids I know. He is quick to say "I love you." He is definitely his mommy's boy. He loves cuddling with mom. He has the largest heart.

Here are some of my favorite pictures of Spencer:

Spencer at 3 months
Spencer at 9 Months

Self Sufficient Spencer at 17 months helping himself to cereal from the 2nd shelf!

Halloween 2008

Disney World October 2008

We love you, Spencer!!

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Happy Birthday, Lizzie!

Liz at age 3


Elizabeth turned 9 while we were on our trip to Utah and Idaho. I can't believe she can possibly be that old!

10 Things I Love About My Lizzie

1. Liz is my biggest helper. She is always helping me around the house-picking things up, tidying up her room, and cleaning the bathrooms!

2. She is quick to obey. Generally, you need to ask only once to do something. I need to be more like she is.

3. She's a good friend and an amazing missionary. Look at the previous post for an example!

4. She loves to go shopping with me. My boys and husband are all allergic to the stores! It's nice to have a daughter who likes to run errands with me!

5. She loves Panda Express. I really appreciate that she loves to go somewhere other than McDonalds! :-) She's my child who is brave when it comes to trying new things.

6. Lizzie is an amazing big sister. Emma adores her and always wants to be right by her playing. Lizzie is quick to incorporate Emma into her play. Emma always has someone to play with if Elizabeth is home.

Lizzie shows Emma the San Diego Temple.

7. She loves to read! I never have to ask her to read. Though once in a while, I have to ask her to put down a book. She is self motivated when it comes to school. I never have to ask her to do her homework. She just does it and never complains!

8. Lizzie always goes the extra mile. This summer when we made the check list, she kept asking if she could add jobs to her list that she wanted to do. Can't say no to a kid who wants to take out the trash!

9. She loves the Savior! She actively tries to follow him. She loves the gospel.

10. She brings so much joy and happiness to our family. I can't imagine life without Lizzie. She brings me so many smiles each day!


Here are some of my favorite pictures of Lizzie through the years:

Elizabeth at 3 months

Lizzie at 9 months

Devan (3) and Elizabeth (1)


Elizabeth at age 3

Liz at age 5
Elizabeth at age 6

Ivan and Elizabeth (8) on her baptism day!

Elizabeth right before she turned 9

Happy Birthday, Elizabeth!!

Children: Natural Missionaries

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Sometimes I wish sharing the gospel could be as easy for me as it is for my children. Yesterday, Jasmine, a neighbor girl, was over playing with Elizabeth.

Here was their basic conversation.

Jasmine: Where were you guys yesterday?

Liz: We were at church! Let me show you what I got yesterday. (Lizzie pulls out her scriptures and shows her the beautiful scripture sticker she got in class on Sunday. They read the scripture together too.) Lizzie continues, "We have extra Books of Mormon. I bet you can have one. Then, we can see if you can come to church with us. (When you bring your scriptures on Sunday, you get a sticker.) You can bring your scriptures and get your own sticker.

Jasmine was ecstatic!

I know these special scripture stickers are pretty pricey. I wonder if her teachers planned on her inviting all her friends in the neighborhood to partake in the program. :-)

I've decided that I need to be as confident in inviting people to church as my kids are! What an example.

Monday, July 20, 2009

God's Words Never Cease

I loved this video of Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, an apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ. So grateful that God's Words Never Cease!

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Good Things Utah

On Friday, I went on Good Things Utah promoting my newest cookbook release, 101 Things to Do With Meatballs. Here is the clip for anyone who would like to see it.


Sunday, July 5, 2009

10 Things You Might Not Know About Stephanie Ashcraft

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In preparing for my shooting with Latter-day Profiles on BYU-TV. I gathered the following information. I just thought I would post it for fun.

1. I have a degree in Family Science from BYU. After finishing, I prayed about whether I should work or stay home with our baby. I got my answer and even had to turn down my dream job of leading one of BYU's student teaching programs in Mexico. I started teaching cooking classes for Macey's grocery stores when my colicky baby was 4 months old. My husband encouraged me to find something I could do one night a week without costing money. I started attending the free cooking classes and started teaching people how to use cake mixes a couple months after that.

2. I put the first version of the 101 Things To Do With A Cake Mix book together as a class project at BYU for a teaching math class. I tried to justify that it was a way to teach kids measurement. I got a B+ because the teacher felt it wasn't relevant to teaching math. After teaching the cake mix class, my husband mentioned that if I finished the book that we could use it as Christmas presents. He's the youngest of 9 and I'm the oldest of 8. We had ink in the printer and paper. My true motivation for finishing the book was the money we would save on gifts that year!

3. We self published the book in our 2 bedroom 1 bathroom apartment at BYU. We printed the book in our bedroom and assembled them in the living room. When we got huge orders, we sometimes got help from a copy center south of campus. We made 7,000 copies before the book went nationwide. 101 Things To Do With A Cake Mix hit the New York Times Best Sellers list a few weeks after it was released with no real publicity. It was truly a miracle. I remember when my editor called to tell me the news. I had the distinct impression that the Lord had a reason for it. My name is listed in the Self Publishing Hall of Fame. Our neighbors in BYU Married Student Housing loved to tell people that their neighbor was a NY Times Best Selling Author.

4. Shortly there after, my husband and I were able to return to my mission in Santiago, Chile. Going back to my mission had been a huge dream! I was interviewed on local and national radio while I was there. They loved the fact that they had a New York Times best Selling author who had served as a Mormon missionary in their country. The majority of the interviews were focused on my mission, the church and what it did for women, and my feelings about Chile. I prayed hard before each interview and miraculously my spanish would return as soon as the on air light turned on and it left as soon as the light went off. I was also able to speak at a multi-stake Relief Society fireside that packed an entire stake center. I felt like Heavenly Father had given me another glorious opportunity to proclaim the gospel in Chile! I felt the good we did on that trip was part of the reason that my book had hit the list.

5. I just celebrated my 12th wedding anniversary. Ivan and I met as temple workers in the Provo temple after our missions. I remember telling roommates that I wouldn't marry a farm boy especially one from Idaho. I ate those words! My husband is amazing. He has always encouraged and supported me in everything I do from books to church callings. He received the National Science Foundation Fellowship which helped pay for his PhD in Electrical Engineering at BYU. I married my rocket scientist and best friend. He is a wonderful father and provider. With the fellowship and help of the books, we made it through graduate school with no debt or student loans and 3 kids! A huge miracle. We were so blessed.

6. My favorite scripture is Doctrine and Covenants 82:10. " I, the Lord, am bound when ye do what I say; but when ye do not what I say, ye have no promise." Whenever we have tried to live a gospel principle, we have been blessed. I have a huge testimony of the blessings that come from paying our tithing and fast offerings from those days as poor college students. I remember attending an education week class at BYU and hearing a quote by Marion G. Romney, "“If we will /double/ our fast offerings we shall increase our prosperity, both spiritually and temporally.” I went home and told my husband what I had heard and that I felt like we needed to double our fast offerings. We were barely keeping our heads above the water financially. We doubled our fast offerings within 2 months my book hit the New York Times Best Sellers list. I knew the Lord was blessing us for obedience to this simple principle.

7. In the last 11 years, I have had 4 children (each a miracle of their own) and written 14 cookbooks. During that time, I have served as Young Women's President, Primary President, counselor in Relief Society, teacher, camp director, ward activities chair, nursery leader, and ward missionary. My hardest calling- 3 1/4 years as Primary President (65 children regularly attending nursery) and 130 kids in my primary. My favorite calling- Ward Missionary. Nothing beats seeing people's lives change and the joy that comes from entering the waters of baptism. We've probably attended at least 100 baptisms (8 year olds and convert baptisms) in the 4 years that we've lived in Tucson. It has been the best part of living in Tucson! I cried the most when my husband baptized our good friends and neighbors, the Mousos, last October. Nothing compares with seeing the gospel bless the lives of people you love. I can't wait to go to the temple with them in November!

8. My full-time job is that of being a mother. I think it is the hardest yet most rewarding job there is. My cookbooks are just a hobby gone out of control. It's been nice to have something that stretches me mentally. Years ago I remember feeling so inadequate. I felt that I must have forgotten to get in line when talents were handed out in heaven. I would look at the women around me. They could sew. They could play the piano. They grew beautiful gardens. I could make cinnamon rolls from a cake mix. It just didn't seem to compare. Then, one day it hit me! Why was I comparing what I couldn't do with what they could do? I realized that Heavenly Father gave each of us different gifts to bless and help grow the kingdom. My ability to make cookies from a cake mix has blessed the lives of thousands of mothers trying to save time in the kitchen! My gift was the ability to simplify.

9. What I am doing now- I'm starting my 15th cookbook. I discovered blogging over the last year and love it. I started a blog called Savvy Savings Tucson where I list online deals, deals around town, and grocery deals using coupons each week. I've gone from shooting cooking segments to sharing how people can save money on the news. People are often surprised by how frugal we are. After pinching pennies for so many years while my husband was in school, I can't handle paying full price for anything. I still scour the grocery ads each week for items to stock up on for food storage and plan our menus around fresh produce that is on sale. We are racing our oldest son. We want to have the house paid off before he leaves on his mission!

I am also an alternate for the town of Marana's Police Citizens Advisory Commission. After getting involved after a poorly worded ordinance was passed, I helped initiate getting the media involved and the community involved in getting it changed. I was able to help the mayor reword the ordinance to do what it was intended to do. The mayor and other town council members encouraged me to apply for the volunteer position.


10. I am the daughter of converts. Missionaries found my parents shortly after they were married in California tracting in their apartment complex. My dad had always felt that the Savior's church had to be on the earth. He was searching and received an immediate answer that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints was the answer he had been searching for. My mom thought he was crazy. She started reading the Book of Mormon and got to the end of 2 Nephi and knew it was true. I think she read the Book of Mormon all the way through in just a couple of weeks. They were baptized. When I was 3 weeks old, I was able to be sealed to my parents in the Oakland temple. I have seen the gospel bless my life and the life of my parents. That's probably why I feel so anxious to share it.